Category: Living

And time ticks on – A pregnancy update

I can’t believe I am writing this at 6.5months pregnant! I wrote here about my struggles with the amount of feelings that I wasn’t expecting when we found out after 5 years of battling infertility that we were finally pregnant.

I am pleased to say that overall the majority of these feelings have settled and I have been able to find enjoyment in this pregnancy which I am really pleased about.  It took a lot of work on my part to get my head into a good place and I think that having our 20 week scan with no issues found really helped me turn a corner and have finally allowed me to enjoy this stage in my life.  I know that we are likely to only ever be blessed with this once and I don’t want to look back and think that I wasn’t able to enjoy any of the moments associated with pregnancy.

We decided that we would find out the gender, it is something that we thought long and hard about but something that we knew in our hearts was right for us and we were not wrong. Finding out what we are expecting has really helped us to bond, to plan, to get even more excited and to feel that this is really happening. We are over the moon to say we are……

We are so excited to be on Team Blue and this weekend we even finally decided on his name.  We are not going to be telling anyone that though as we do want to keep some surprises!  But we love it and are hoping that everyone else does when he arrives.

A little pregnancy, how I am doing update I suppose wouldn’t go amiss.  I am currently under consultant led care due to my recent diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis (I am planning to blog more about my pregnancy and MS directly as time goes on) and will be back into see her when I am 32 weeks.  She has offered me the option of induction at 38 weeks if my MS is proving to be too much of a problem so that will be something to think about as we get closer to the time of the appointment, currently I am undecided as to what is best but do know that I will be requesting induction at 40 weeks as there is no way my body could cope with going over and the stresses that that brings (stress really spikes off my MS symptoms)  I was also told at my 20 week scan that I had a low lying placenta which currently is not something major to worry about as most will move by the latter stages of pregnancy but I will be re scanned at 34 weeks to check if this has happened, fingers crossed it will have and we will have had a bonus scan too so there are silver linings!

My bump is developing nicely, I am getting all the usual pregnancy related comments, ‘oh you are huge’ followed closely by someone else saying ‘oh you are so neat’! honestly though it did my head in so much when it started happening but now I am just trying to ignore it and embrace my changing body.  After all it is growing our miracle.

I am going to try to blog a little more as we enter the third trimester, I was worried about upsetting some of my friends who are still in the trenches but I have to set that to one side as it was really affecting my enjoyment of this time in my life that I really didn’t think I would ever experience.  If you think that you might be triggered by my posts I will not take any offence if you no longer follow the blog and I wish you all the best in your journeys.

Claire xx

It’s the small things ~ April Edition 

It’s time for the small things that made me smile in April.

Daffodils as far as you can see.

Finding out we are Team Blue ??

Baby mags, coffees and sunbathing dogs.

Enjoying a lazy Easter long weekend.

Forever being reminded how lucky we are after 5 long years of battling infertility.

Beginning the hard task of name choosing.

Enjoying lazy Sunday mornings.

Raising awareness of Multiple Sclerosis in MS awareness week.

Reaching first viability milestone #6monthspregnant

Flying home for a lovely weekend with the family before the little man arrives.

And that was April

Claire x

It’s the small things ~ March Edition 

It’s time for the small things that made me smile in March.

Sunshine and takeaway coffees. Overnight hotel breaks.

Sleepy Schnauzers relaxing in hotels.

Finding the most perfect baby vests.

New food diaries. 

Schnauzer meet ups.


Ikea coffee and cake.

The perfect mum to be Mother’s Day.

Dignified sunbathing Schnauzers.

A weekend filled with sunshine and walks.

Satisfying cravings. 

Enjoying spring flowers.

And that was March. Let’s see what April brings. 

Claire xx 

Pregnancy, Slimming World & Multiple Sclerosis 

Well that’s a title and a half isn’t it! Obviously those of you who follow my blog know all about my success with losing weight with Slimming World, being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and then finding out that after a long battle with infertility that I was pregnant.

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking recently about how to manage my weight alongside having a healthy happy pregnancy with limited impact on my Multiple Sclerosis. There are lots of things to think about there, but already I’ve been met with a lot of comments verging more on the negative side. I know overall people don’t mean it but commenting on the fact that I’m trying to look after myself during this pregnancy by continuing to follow Slimming World is quite annoying! 

My first trimester was not good eating and looking after myself wise. I had constant nausea from week 6-13 and the only thing that really helped was eating, but of course, fruit and vegetables weren’t going to cut it. The only thing that helped were white carbs and lots of them. When I eventually took myself back to my Slimming World group I had gained 13lbs at 15 weeks pregnant which was a shock to the system! But it was the shock that I needed to help me rethink exactly what I was doing (and eating) and thankfully my weight gain appears to have slowed down lots which is so much better for me both personally and physically.

I have another extra level to think about too with my recent diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis. Before falling pregnant I was following a fairly strict MS friendly diet which again went to the wayside somewhat in the first trimester. The MS diet focuses a lot on keeping saturated fat content low along with being more plant based with no refinded foods and it gets great results. That is something that I am again trying to refocus on.

As I said, I’ve had lots of comments about why I’m crazy to be even thinking of following Slimming World, that I should just eat what I want, that I’m going to gain weight so just go with it, to not weigh myself at all during pregnancy as what’s the point. I obviously know I am going to gain weight and I’m happy to do so, this is something I have dreamed of for many years, jeez it was one of the key reasons I lost the weight in the first place. But I am not willing to jeopardise my health for ‘eating for two’ there is too much at risk for me if I gain too much weight.

So what’s the plan then? I have bought a gorgeous new pregnancy friendly slimming world diary which I’m going to start keeping track of what I’m eating, I’m going to weigh in at my Slimming World group monthly. I’m going back to basics with my MS friendly plan incorporated into Slimming World and I’m going to relax and be happy knowing that I’m doing my best to look after myself and my baby during pregnancy but also making as much attempt as I can to not be holding too much weight post birth that may affect my mobility with my MS.
My lovely Fox and Moon planner

Wish me luck! 

Claire xx 

It’s the small things ~ February edition 

It’s time for the small things that have made me smile this month. And in case you somehow missed it, this was the month we announced our lives were changing forever!

There were important announcements.

And important paperwork to be read.

Favourite flowers enjoyed.

Sunday afternoons spent laughing with the husband.

Valentines dinners enjoyed.

Unexpected post received ❤️

Seaside family weekends away enjoyed.

Family beach walks on breezy days.

Gorgeous sunrises enjoyed.

Such thoughtful gifts from friends received.

Birthday pancakes enjoyed.

Beautiful birthday flowers admired.

And birthdays finished with cheeky Nando’s.

Easy Starbucks enjoyed.

More surprise cards received.

Ickle baby bumps appearing.

And that was the amazing month of February.

Claire xx 

It’s the small things ~ January edition 

A little late this month and quite a quiet post but it’s time for the small things that made me smile in January.

Starting the year at a fire and light show at our local park.
New diaries, new dreams, new hopes.

Tree down and my favourite Willow Tree figure back in place.

Spotify chilling mornings.

Reaching a year as a Slimming World target member!

Celebrating 15 years together.

Pride at keeping this alive. Longest time I’ve ever managed.

Freezing cold days but beautiful blue skies.

Canal reflections.

January has been a quiet, reflective month but lovely none the less. 

Let’s see what February has in store.

Claire xx

It’s the small things – December edition 

It’s time for the small things that made my December.

Raising £220.90 for the MS Trust through a bake sale at work. So happy to be able to give a little back.

Making a light up box for our hallway for Christmas.

Getting our Christmas on.

Throwing a surprise birthday weekend for my gorgeous hubby.

Visiting the Kelpies at nighttime.

Receiving a beautiful bouquet of flowers from my husband to thank me for his birthday celebrations.

Christmas jumper wearing.

Indulging in Christmas movies.

Enjoying dairy free baileys.

Getting my Christmas nails on.

Long drive back to Ireland listening.

Chilling in front of the in laws open fire. 

Enjoying cocktails with my Mum & Sister.

 Enjoying beautiful sunsets as our boat set sail to return to Scotland.

Loving my new rose gold coffee set.

Celebrating Hogmanay with our close family.

And that was December. Looking forward to seeing what 2017 brings.

Claire xx 

And life takes another unexpected turn… 

It’s taken me a little while to get my head into the right place to write this post.  Those of you who follow me on Twitter or Instagram will already be aware of the unexpected turn my life recently took and that life has been a little bit up and down over the last 4 or so months.  For those of you who just follow my blog, in November I got diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis after experiencing numerous neurological symptoms, mainly the inability to walk far, lift my left leg without using my hands and lots and lots of numbness.  I went back and forward to my GP twice who then sent an urgent referral to neurology who then did an urgent MRI to confirm their suspicions and we were sitting in November, still experiencing lots of left-sided weakness, numbness, tingling, pain and muscle spasms, facing a neurologist who said the words ‘you have relapsing and remitting MS

Thankfully things have improved a lot since that horrible day on the 21st August when my life changed as I knew it. My MS team are not sure if I have fully came out of the exacerbation or not yet, which they said could take 6 months or more.  I have been left with lots of residual symptoms which mainly manifest themselves in my left side.  I suffer daily from numbness, balance issues, MS Hug (which contrary to its name is as far removed from the actual loving hug you have in your mind when you see the word!) and extreme fatigue, these may or may not get a little better but the nature of the illness is that no one ever knows.  So I just need to find my new normal, listen to my body and become a little bit selfish when it comes to my own health.

Life has changed for me that is for sure, it is has been at times scary, frustrating, exhausting and all-consuming but slowly, day by day, bit by bit I am learning how to live with this chronic illness.  There will be good days, there will be bad but I will not let it take over every aspect of my life.

Claire xx

It’s the small things – November edition 

It’s time for the small things that have made me happy in November. 

Amazing post received from a beautiful lady.

Dogs in winter jumpers

 Beautiful Sunday walks. 

Christmas coffee cups.

 Beautiful sunrises on frosty mornings.

Swan family spotting

Planning days out. 

Buying new calendars.

Favourite deliveries! 

Kindle time and chill out playlists.

Beautiful walks as the sun began to set.

Holidays are coming! The first showing of the Coke ad always makes me smile. 

Feeling the chill.

Heading to Ireland for pre Christmas delights. 

Mules, markets and girlie family times. 

Mulled ciders, Georgian market day and light shows. 
Wine, alternative nativities and family meals out. 
First red cup of the Christmas season.

And that was November! 

November has been a tough month, I’ve had a diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis formally given so finding joy in the little things has never been more important. Let’s see what December brings.

Claire xx 

It’s the small things – October edition 

It’s time for the small things that have helped me smile in October.

Gorgeous Autumn days at Loch Lommond

Dog walks and Coffees from this gorgeous Airstream.

Pulling off a great stand on World Mental Health Day.

Signing up for a Christmas Cake Off!

Keeping strong.

Rocking the lounge wear look. 

Enjoying some down time with the hubby before he headed away to America for a break.

Never underestimating the power of online friendships when this gorgeous card arrived on my doorstep. 

Loving a Spotify playlist to brighten up my day.

Updating my wall of positivity.

Loving the Autumn colours.

Smiling at the amazing ‘fall’ photos being shared by my husband from America.

Making time for ‘raw healthy’ cake and coffee.

Having a lovely week with my Mum & Dad visiting Scotland.

Stopping to remind myself of the little things.

Celebrating fifth wedding anniversaries.

Laughing as usual at the crazy upside down dog.

Herring spotting on our dog walk.

Nothing beats an autumn walk through the crunchy leaves. 

Not letting MS beat me and finding new ways to work out.

Treating myself to some Christmas Yankees……holidays are coming!

Belated anniversary breaks away.

Highland Coo spotting and being in awe of the beautiful autumn colours.

Having a feeling that someone was watching over me.

And that was October!

Claire xx